Okay here is my problem: Ever since I was six I've been having baths and taking showers with my older sister, who is now 21, and we are still doing this. She is twenty-one and I am fourteen and we still shower and bathe together, wash each other, and even talk about sex and she helps me with my problems in what I like to call our "special time" and she has no qualm or problem with it. But recently I've bene hearing it is wrong and we should stop and I do not know what to do. My sister says there is no problem with it and we are still doing our "special time" together. Could anyone help me to clarify this please?