my boyfriend likes to do weed and alcohol (especially when hes with his family)but hes not as bad as he use to. i understand doing it every once in a while but i really would love it for him to stop doing these things. its messing him up and i dont like talking to him like that. i want to tell him to stop and we talked about it he said he calmed down but he seems as if he wants to do it. i dont want to upset him i just would rather him calm down cuz hes been doing weed and stuff for a LONG TIME... and it messing up his heart and i just worry about him im scared for him [img]images/smilies/frown.gif[/img] what should i do i want him to be ok.