Thread: Kids Before Marriage? Or After?

i have noticed these days that couples are having kids before getting Married. like the kids are like in there teen years before there mum and dad get married.
i wonder if its pointless on even getting married after having 2 kids or a kid.
i know some like the old fashion way, get married before kids.
im actually going to go with having kids regardless of marriage.

your thoughts?

It is better for the kids if their parents are married. Thats what i think at least

I think after marriage, becuase its after you commit yourself to someone.

I prefer kids after marriage.

I like it

kids after marriage is the old ways and still kick around. a lot of people hope for kids after marriage but doesnt seem to happen as planned these days dont you think lol?

As long as people live on their own(as in not mooching off their parents),Have a stable income and offer their child every opportunity in life, I see no problem with kids before marriage.

I however would not have them with someone I'm not married to, but that's just personal preference.

Even being married myself, Kids are still one of the furthest things from my mind.

If i was ever to have kids id preffer to be married befor but i supose ether way is allright as long as you have a job, house etc...

But I have a problem with the definition of a child born of parents not married to each other, that is.

I wouldn't like someone to call my kid that.

Definitely after