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    Default two dads...

    i was havn a great time wit my gf for the whole first month off school.. and now.. im home from uni..
    and so the drama begins..
    i love my family and it had already been complicated before because my dad was never really my dad but was my mom's bf.. and he raised me up like his own kid.. the only reason he's only bf/gf wit my mom is cause he couldn leave his wife or else he loses everythn n he has built so much and the wife wanted everythn.. she was pissed..
    but he wouldn want a divorce..
    and my mom can't wait forever..
    she wants to grow old wit a man who IS hers..
    not in the end of the day when Im gone.. so is her man..
    he's suppose to be her rock..
    anyway..
    my mom got married after being wit my "dad" for 10 years.. and now I have 2 dads.. I love the "dad" because he was the best and I grew up wit him .. and he was just awesome.. I like this other dude cause he's very gentle and sweet wit my mom.. he may not be as rich as my dad but he tries his best to buy whatever he can afford..
    my dad was a very materialistic guy.. I love the guy but on Christmas I get lil envelopes wit 1000 bucks n a note sayn "merry christmas".. no i love you's .. no sorry i didn have time to think what YOU REALLY wanted..

    in other words.. this new guy has offered me n my mom what my dad couldn.. a name.. and showin real affection.. that, trust me, you will look for in a person..

    but now im home im spendin the nights at my dad and my he's been very cuddly.. he hugs me a lot and when I was talkn to him and huggn him n telln him to go to bed cause he's tired.. he just went like.. when I get to do this (hugging me) i feel so relaxed and relieved...

    and if you knew my dad.. he's not the guy who says I love you.. EVER.. and he says stuff like this?!?!.. dude.. he must be hurting like hell!!!


    im torn..
    the new dad is great..
    but the old dad was someone who I have trusted and the reason I knew there were decent guys out there...

    *sigh*
    any way to get over this feeln?

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    Well, why do we need to choose? Just simply accept 2 dads at the same time. Your bio-dad is still your dad however, you should still love him. The other "dad" could be looked like a real good friend.
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    I have 2 two dads also. The key factor is to accept them both and you have just tell them what they want to hear

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    I think you have your answer. Clapclapclap to up above! ^

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    Two dads is really not that bad...

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    Seems to me ur getting the best of both worlds. I agree with the above posts too, why choose, u don't need to. It's not like your betraying one by being with another like in the case of a girlfriend or something. Relax and enjoy I say

 

 

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