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    Help my cousin got arrested! help!

    my bad ass cousin always gets arrested.. my aunt always cry coz she blames herself why my cousin grew up to be like that.. she gave her all: money, time, love, attention.. i am wondering why he is like that.. i guess it because he is in the wrong set of friends.. prolly because of peer pressure and the need to belong?
    is there some kind of help for his situation ? coz i feel sorry for my aunty.. and she needs help on what to do with his son..

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    Hi there. nice of you to be worried with your aunt's situation. I guess he became a spoiled brat. That's what likely causes a teen to be off the hook because they think they can get everything. Teenage years could be traumatic and a headache for parents. They are in nature rebellious because of their hormones are on its peak. Seems like your cousin is still not that in grave situation right? Because if it's just a mild situation, a LINK REMOVED. The program provides the participants with a varied activities that keeps them away from bad practices they might well get up to over summer. Also, the camp could help your cousin structure his behavior because of the disciplined activities. Plus he'll be in good shape also

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    i know he tries to be rebellious and all.. but cant he just be EMO around or be naughty and not go to the point of being arrested..
    i will tell me aunt about your suggestion.. ty..

    are there any other options? or suggestions?

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    well if he keeps it up, his going to end up in jail. its there, he will come to his senses.
    but yet, you could be talking about a teenager here. not enough info about what has happened etc. and of course the wrong crowd = trouble.

    is there some kind of help for his situation ? coz i feel sorry for my aunty.. and she needs help on what to do with his son..
    kinda lost, whos son??

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    Quote Originally Posted by BoYkA View Post
    well if he keeps it up, his going to end up in jail. its there, he will come to his senses.
    but yet, you could be talking about a teenager here. not enough info about what has happened etc. and of course the wrong crowd = trouble.



    kinda lost, whos son??
    my aunts son = my cousin..

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudy View Post
    my aunts son = my cousin..
    his son or her son that's confusing. you write his son.
    your aunty could always try not to give money, time, love, attention anymore until he behavior changes.
    your aunty should say to him, you get nothing till you smarten your self up a bit. whats the worst that can happen? he leaves home, well then he will learn he cant do without her. later on down the track when a person is left with nothing, no job, no love, no money, end up in jail. that will be the turning point to change in ones life. your cousin is taking advantage of your aunty, not thankful for nothing, time to lay down the rules, take charge or the other will end up walking all over you.

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    Your a very thoughtful cousin to have be worrying about your cousin. Your cousin is just being rebellious and if you want to help him. There are counselors that can help him because he needs serious therapy. But if all fails, there is always Juvenile Boot Camps. They help with struggling kids to change by enforcing a forceful form of discipline. Tell your aunt about and go from there. Stay strong.
    Last edited by Killer; 29-09-2011 at 09:17 AM.

 

 

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