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    When I first started at my last job, everyone talked to me but Carla. She didn’t wanna be my friend and never liked me right from the start. I can’t bear it, so I begged and tried to pay her $$$, which she turned down. They called corporate on me but luckily for me, all the higher-ups did was put me on a different shift from Carla. Still, I needed an anger outlet, so I treated other coworkers like shyt, esp the people Carla DID like. I basically verbally attacked them regularly. I got written up for that and then flicked off my boss for writing me up. Luckily, she didn’t see the finger. I also stared at Carla on my days off and got told to leave the building, which I did…1 hour later. But really, I just desperately want her to talk to me. Finally, I found out Carla added everyone on FB but me, so I screamed at my boss in front of customers. They suspended me 2 weeks. I returned to work to on-call hours and ostracism, so I quit 3 weeks later. I spent 13 months total on that job.

    Thing is, Carla hurt me. I remember pleading w/ my boss on FB to make Carla like me. Also, whenever Carla snubbed me, I reported it to the boss, who said to let it go. (For instance, Carla won’t sit at my table, etc.) I also ripped buttons off Andrea’s coat bc Carla’s her friend and not mine (no one found out.) I just need everyone to like me. Even one person not liking me will send me over the edge. How do I deal w/ that? How do I stop thinking of her?! Moreover, how can I ensure that no one will ever hurt me again?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Placebo View Post
    umm same thing but name changes, o'well i answered your last thread basically the same thing

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    You sound so unlikable.
    I don't blame her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dark_angel198911 View Post
    I found out Carla added everyone on FB but me, so I screamed at my boss in front of customers.
    what the hell does your boss got to do with you and facebook lol? yelling at your boss in front of customers over facebook, i would have dragged you out by the hair. abusing people will get you kno where in life so live and learn
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    I just didn't know how to deal w/ what Carla was putting me through. btw, that job was at McD's. And could it be Carla put a curse on me? I been through 15 interviews the past year and a half and still no offer.

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    At Wal-Mart, things seemed to look up for me...until I found out Emily didn't like me. I saw her 5-6 times the several months I was there but each time, she ignored me. No one else did this and it pissed me off. I tried to pay her $20 but didn't push it when she refused. It lasted all of 2 seconds. I told off-color jokes to impress her, but it almost got me in trouble instead. Worst of all, I stood by the fitting room waiting for her instead of working, which got me a poor review. I even screamed at my supervisor bc she confronted me for talking about her. Well, when I'm pissed, I gossip. What's the big ****ing deal? The 2 months of "doing better." The entire time the girl who did the review said "doing better," I held in alot of rage. I was lax on myself b4 as a way to cope w/ Emily hurting me and she took away that coping strategy as a condition of employment. No wonder I ended up cursing out another coworker and hitting the pole in front of customers. Workplace violence, it turned out to be.

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    Here's some update:

    I found a girl on facebook that I went to junior high with. She ****ed up my life there. Right from the start, she liked almost everyone but me. No wonder I kicked a hole in the wall and got suspended alot. I'm 22 now and she STILL don't like me.

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    well then its not the end of the world move on!
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    Not everybody has to like you, if they dislike you try and avoid them, but making a commotion about it will only make more people think low of you.
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