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    ok to start wif a little about my self, i go to school and i work part time,

    i like to go home after work at nite and read or play video games and

    most of the time on the computer.

    im also a very strait person like i dont drink smoke or take any kind of drugs.

    But i also have many friends who like going out at nite clubing drinking and

    having fun with guys which is not my kind of nite.

    My friends are always asking me togo out to partys and drink and meet

    guys take drugs and that i do not want todo.

    im scared now that my friends are starting to think along the gay sides

    because i have not sleeped with a guy before and hostly this does not

    bother me one bit.

    I also feel confused as well I wish someone could tell me what the point of spending your entire paycheck on alcohol in one night and clubing.



    They also ask me how come I have such a strong stance against drugs if I've never tried them. "Don't knock it til you tried it" they say. And I say the best way to beat addiction is to never start. Same with sex. All my friends have lots of guy friends talking about who did who. Asking me when I'm going to get a boyfriend and do it with them.



    well the question is what would you do in my shoes???

    i mean i like my friends very much and do not want to lose them.

    But the guys they hang wif are always trying stuff on me.

    If anyone can understand what im trying to say please i do need a

    lead in the right path?

    And has anyone alse been through this?

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    you have been through such an emotional time , danielle sad....

    If there any chance you can find more friends because they should not

    annoy you like that and as for the boys piss em off.

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    Any friends into drugs is bad news to me mad...

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    I say just follow what your heart tells you to do. I am 24 & i have never been into the whole going out clubbing thing. When i was in high school & my friends started doing all that stuff, i just did what i wanted to do. If your friends dont like who you are, then they are not real friends at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Tarryn~
    I say just follow what your heart tells you to do. I am 24 & i have never been into the whole going out clubbing thing. When i was in high school & my friends started doing all that stuff, i just did what i wanted to do. If your friends dont like who you are, then they are not real friends at all.


    this is very true tarryn Thumbsup

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    thanks for the advise, but i will have no friends if i dont be friends with them,

    and i dont want to not have friends confused...

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    im sure you will find new friends, your friends dont really sound like

    real friends to me.

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    everyone can find a friend easy anough, some time you just think you cant Thumbsup

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    i like going out clubbing but we do it like 2 times a month, its ok... we mostly go planet lazer, or bowling.. erm lucky for me none of my GOOD mates are into drugs. they dont even smoke,

    we all good boys you see :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by danielle
    thanks for the advise, but i will have no friends if i dont be friends with them,

    and i dont want to not have friends confused...


    I know it is a bit of an awkward situation to be in, sometimes it is hard to find new friends as people tend to stick with their little groups, and no-one wants to be alone or feel left out, maybe you can still be friends with them, but just do what you think is right. If they want to go out, let them. I'm sure you could all find other things to do together that you will all think is fun. Just tryen" to give you some suggestions as i went through the same thing when i was in high school. Hang in there, it will all work out Im sure. Thumbsup

 

 

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